I've always been fascinated by people. Not the version they present to the world, but the version underneath.

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The version that says she's over him while checking her phone every six minutes. The version that says she wants love but keeps choosing men who can't give it. The version that says she wants a different life while holding on to every reason she can't have one.

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For more than twenty years, I've had a front row seat to human behavior. Some of it happened on a massage table. Some of it happened in living rooms and homes. Some of it happened in strip clubs, spiritual communities, relationships, airports, and conversations that probably should have come with a warning label.

 

What I discovered is that people are wonderfully predictable.

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We think we're making decisions based on logic, but we're usually following patterns we can't see. We chase the unavailable man and call it chemistry. We stay too long and call it loyalty. We ignore our intuition and call it being realistic. We abandon ourselves and call it love.

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My work is helping people recognize the pattern beneath the problem.

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Because the breakup is rarely about him. The clutter is rarely about the closet. The dream is rarely about motivation. And the life that no longer fits is usually trying to tell the truth long before we're ready to hear it.

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Born in Finland and now based in Northern California, I spend my days helping women see what has been hiding in plain sight.

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Including the occasional giant pink elephant.​